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How to Live Single But Not Feel Alone
There are a lot of reasons why people remain single these days and many are happy to do so.
Don't listen to what others expect or think is best for you. If staying single is the lifestyle choice you want then go for it. There is no reason not to live your best life, the life you want while staying single.
Choosing to be single is a choice just as choosing to get married is a choice. But it doesn't mean that just because you're single that you're not dating and out there having fun.
There are many people, such as myself, who choose to be single, live alone, and not get married but still date.
Then there are those singles who choose their careers first and want to get married later in life.
No matter which option you choose for the moment, being single doesn't mean you have to be alone.
Job You Love
Having a job or career that you love is paramount to living your best life.
When you have a job you look forward to going each day and/or co-workers you really get along with, it makes you happier, more productive and keeps you motivated.
People spend a significant amount of time working and if you don't like what you do, it only means hours of misery.
Having a job also keeps a singleton independent financially, which is very important.
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See The World
Don't wait until you have a traveling companion. Some of the best holidays can be by yourself. No need to agree on a destination with another person.
You can go where you want. Traveling alone really teaches someone a lot about themselves.
Going to restaurants, museums or events alone helps bring a person out of their shell and many times they meet new and interesting people.
Traveling on your own allows you to go on your own schedule and your own pace. It also allows a person to reflect, recharge their batteries and really get to know yourself better.
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Support System
Having a support system and a social life helps us deal with life and all the stress it entails. Being around people we feel connected to is good for our mental and physical health.
You don't need to see people all the time or have a large group of friends. Some people just have a small circle and that is all they need.
And it's okay if your friends are your family members, it's all about who you enjoy hanging out with the most.
But having someone to talk to when things get rough or you want to share good news helps to feel less alone.
In a world that thinks everyone should come in pairs, friends are essential.
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Find Your Community
Seek out like-minded people who share the same values to connect with.
For me, I started my own Meetup group for my business
Naughty Los Angeles, but also to meet open-minded people where we all could meet somewhere safe.
It doesn't mean you have to start your own group or even a naughty one. Maybe you volunteer, join a Meetup group or club. It's all about finding people who share your similar interests.
This is also a great way to make friends if you don't have any. And don't feel bad if you don't, as many people don't due to work and just being busy. But just as you make time workout, make time to find a group with similar interests as you.
Being single can be at times difficult when everyone you know is married and they keep asking why you are not.
It wears on your nerves and can be really irritating. Married people do not have to constantly explain why they are married.
Single people always seem to be having to justify their single life. Seek out single communities, blogs or online groups.
The community doesn't have to focus on being single but finding a group who doesn't focus on your relationship status constantly can be a real relief.
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Make A Home
It is important for a single person to have a home of their own, that fits their taste and lifestyle.
Do you want to create a place for entertaining so you can be the hostess with mostest? Or a get-away oasis?
Make your home a place where you feel comfortable because you will spend a lot of time there.
Don't wait to decorate the way you want to until you find that special someone or get married.
What if that special someone never comes or takes twenty years to find? You don't need to have a wedding to get that China set you fancy.
Get it now because you're celebrating being single and fabulous! You should create a space that is all your own! Enjoy your single life while it lasts if you plan to get married or live with someone eventually.
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Adopt An Animal
Pets can be a great comfort and great company to single people.
Pets love you unconditionally and are there for you when you're feeling down or lonely.
They make the perfect companion especially for those who don't want to have kids.
Sex, Sex, Sex
Have sex! Sex has many health benefits and just makes you feel good. Staying single doesn't mean you have to forgo sex.
Take a lover. Take more than one if you want to. Also, don't be afraid to fly solo.
Masturbation helps you through the dry spells and it is important you know how to self-pleasure yourself to learn what gets you off.
Buy a toy box or clear out a drawer, and fill it with
sex toys to experiment with when you like.
Masturbation is important even if you have a sexual partner so you can tell your lover exactly what you like.
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Join A Fitness Community
Take care of your overall health. Working out increases your sex drive, helps boost body confidence, makes you feel sexier and gives you a healthy, natural glow.
If you don't want to or can't get to a gym there are other ways to exercise. Take a walk, a dance class, learn to pole dance, run or work out to a DVD at home.
If you want to join an exercise group, take a salsa class or bike riding group. This also helps you find a community.
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Get A Hobby
Everyone needs a creative outlet. Find something you really enjoy that has nothing to do with work. Take a cooking class or learn scrapbooking if that's what interests you.
There's SO much out there on the internet with classes that you can take.
Do something to keep your brain working and active. Being single does not mean sitting around the house all day with no life. Find something you love and have fun.
